Why are you here?
Let me guess, you're either visiting this website because you're dealing with an intelligent child who is failing in school or because your child has become so dysfunctional in school you have no idea what to do. If your child is attention deficit or deals with attention deficit hyperactivity disorder you may be at your wits end.
What do I think?
Here's where I'd like to make a disclaimer. I feel that the term "attention deficit disorder" (ADD or ADHD) is all wrong. First of all, I believe that is simply a difference in learning styles. It is not a deficit or a disorder. Just because the brain chemistry of one individual is different than another does not make it a bad thing. And second, this learning style doesn't necessarily fit well with current American classroom model, but may have been a very beneficial learning style for our ancient ancestors. So, what do you do next? You find something that works.
At this point I'd like to send out a big thank you to all of the ADD and ADHD students we have worked with. It is thanks to their learning style that this system was developed in the first place. It took a creative, random, abstract perspective for us to see the incredible need for a different way to organize school work. However, this system has proven to have a much broader application. We have learned that most organizational "planners" or homework help systems do not work for most students. They're simply not developmentally appropriate.
What can you do?
The concept of using a "macro organizer" in school is revolutionary. It is an idea that most teachers and educational professionals never even think of. We have found that using our concepts, with the tools provided, that the Mac can; improve children's self esteem, improve grades in school and aid to the overall success of your child.
What have we heard?
Here's the typical story that we hear. "Hello, my child has been diagnosed with ADHD. We have put him on meds, but he is still failing in school. We hired a tutor, but that hasn't seemed to help either. When we go in for conferences the teacher tells that they have seen improvement in behavior, but that he isn't turning in any of his homework. We ask him every night if he has homework to do and he always says he got it done at school. Sometimes, even thought he is in high school, I will go through his folders and notebooks and find incomplete work. So I sit down with him and help him get it completed. Only to find out that it never gets turned in. He gets high marks on all his tests and quizzes, but he is still failing the class. It doesn't seem fair. We have gone out and bought numerous folders and notebooks trying to help him organize his stuff, but that has only complicated things. When he remembers that he has homework it seems that he grabs the wrong folder or notebook and is stuck again. He is working so hard. We have taken away all of his privileges until he gets it together, but that hasn't helped either. He used to be a very confident, outgoing person, but he seems to be depressed and his self esteem is suffering. I am at my wits end! I don't know what else I can do. I came across your website and thought you might be able to help."
How do I respond?
"You have come to the right place. Our system is so simple and easy to use that you and your child will have hope. You will see the ability to achieve the deserved success. We have taken great measures to make sure that it doesn't look "weird" or different from everyone else's notebook. I am confident that we can improve your child's self esteem, grades in school and overall productivity. You will find that minimizing the organizational tools will maximize the results."
Many people are looking for alternative ADD and ADHD treatment, but overlook the practical pieces. Don't get me wrong, I feel that dietary changes, limitations on screen time and nutritional supplements are something that should definitely be addressed. As a teacher, I have seen great benefits from these alternative treatments. But, it doesn't give them practical coping skills to live in our busy, day to day lifestyle. Learning the concepts on macro organization will help them to own and embrace a different way of thinking. One that fits into their own learning style much better than the tools they are currently working with. Most organizational tools are developed by very organized minds. Many teachers fit into this category. They are organized by nature and think that organization is simple common sense. They overlook the needs that those with creative, abstract and random minds have. Maybe you're the type of person who has a hard time getting your desk organized in the traditional sense. Maybe you locate items by looking through the pile on your desk chronologically. Kind of like an archeologist. It doesn't make you less intelligent than the next person, you just haven't found a system that really works for you. You may have similar patterns as your child does. It's no wonder your child can't seem to get that paper back to his teacher.
What does Mr. G have to say about all this?
The Vicious Cycle: When a child with ADD feels intense pressure, either from not having their homework done, not understanding an assignment, or losing any sense of control, they begin to shutdown. This does not mean they goes to sleep, it simply means they process and understand less and less. This means that as they experience little success in school, and should be pulling himself up by the bootstraps, he is doing worse and worse, understanding less and less. This "shutting down" is not within your child's control. It is simply a learning characteristic of ADD children. Unless this cycle is broken, and the child begins to feel a sense of control, the downward spiral will continue.
Some additional information: First of all, it is important to note that MOST teachers are not ADD, in fact most are very organized, linear-thinking individuals. With the amount of paperwork that it takes to be a teacher, most would-be teachers, that could relate to your child, leave the classroom in search of positions that fit their personality. Jobs that do not take the incredible amount of time-management and organization that teaching takes. Writing, sales, graphic arts, almost anything accept teaching. Therefore, many teachers may have a very difficult time relating to your child. Hence the "If Johnny would just get himself organized..." or "He could be a straight A student if he would just work up to his potential..." comments. Do you really think Johnny wouldn't work up to his potential IF he could? I'll tell you the answer: of course he would! Unfortunately for the classroom, the organized, linear-thinking individuals are the one that have the hardest time understanding individuals that learn different from themselves.
"If he would just apply himself." He is incapable of applying himself the way the this teacher might expect.
The second thing to remember: Many ADD children are extremely sharp, and many are identified for Talented and Gifted programs. Many others should be identified, but the ADD Learning Style can get in the way.
As you read advice about ADD, it's repeated over and over, "Help him get organized!" How? You don't go to school with him. The teachers are so overloaded and overworked that they have a hard time giving him the attention he needs.
Problem:
Entrepreneurs that have created these organizational systems see ADD children as a wonderful market, and say, "We'll throw our product on the internet or in a magazine, get these ADD children organized AND make a lot of money!" As those of you that have bought these "Homework Organizers" know, they don't work. They promise the world, but let's take a look at them, realistically. So, your child has a hard time organizing the assignments given to him, well the "Homework Organizer" will organize those, and while we're at it, we'll micro-organize all aspects of his projects, then we'll have him ask teachers to sign off on all projects, then we'll have him chart his progress, then we'll have him collect names of other students, then we'll have him...these are professionally organized people. The do not understand the way an ADD child's mind works or how to accommodate for different learning styles! I believe many times these products are well intended, but the results speak for themselves.
You get the picture. How in the world does it make sense to take a child who cannot organize his daily work and give him a fancy folder and have him organize more and more? It just doesn't make sense!
It would be like taking your car's instrument panel and putting gauges for everything the car does, until it looks like a cockpit of a 747! It would simply overwhelm the driver.
Fine, but where does that leave my child...I'm willing to help him in any way possible, I just don't know how...
Here's what Macro Organizers has done. Instead of expecting a student to conform to the majority of educators who are in the pursuit of "organizing" their students, giving them micro-organizing tools that are simply ineffective and developmentally inappropriate we have thrown all that out the window.
Let's start from square one. Think outside the box. That's what your student does naturally. Let's figure out what is important. Let's figure out what it takes to help your student get through school. Let's take this and throw everything else away. Let's help them get macro-organized. Focus on the important stuff. The rest will take care of itself.
The MAC, which is short for macro-organizer, includes just what is needed for success in the classroom. No extra charts, facts, etc. It is also very complete, including everything that is needed for success.
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